Compromised Design

After my previous post a friend of mine had a question about what I meant when I wrote, “…There's something about the way the modern church is structured that sabotages relationships.” Specifically, he wanted to know what exactly it was about the way modern churches are structured that damages relationships in this way. I’m going to try and tackle that here.

So let’s begin with how churches are structured. No matter what denomination you are, no matter whether you attend a conservative or liberal church, no matter whether your church has been around for 200 years or was just planted yesterday, in nearly every case your church looks something like this…

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Tell Me If You've Heard This One Before...

…Some dear friends of yours are part of a tight knit bible study group in their church, one that has met regularly for years. It's small, just a handful of families, and they've been through everything together: weddings, baby showers, funerals, divorces…everything. And not only do they share years and years of history, they've also been truly vulnerable with one another, telling each other things about themselves and about their stories that few others know.

It's a group I'm sure many of us would like to have, no?

But something strange happens…

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What Will Our Children Remember About 2020?

We’ve never experienced anything like this.

All over the country schools and businesses have closed. You can’t go out to eat. Churches have moved online. Professional sports are cancelled for the foreseeable future. And tens of millions have lost or are losing their jobs.

And, of course, Covid-19.

We’re still at the tip of the spear, so to speak, which makes it hard to say what is going to come of all of this. But…

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Shepherding Now

Just a few weeks ago my wife and I were stressing over what the summer was going to look like: budgeting for our annual visit to see family in Seattle, whether to sign up for this camp or that camp, and wondering how we’d survive yet another summer with kids bouncing off every solid object in our house.

Feels like a thousand years ago.

Everything has changed, hasn’t it? We’re in Minnesota where…

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Church 2040

So few grains of happiness measured against all the dark and still the scales balance,” Jane Hirshfield

I came across the above quote in one of my favorite blogs, https://www.brainpickings.org/, and I wanted to share it because I think it’s a well needed word of hope in the midst of a dark and trying time for the church. Mega church scandals, denominational splits, and falling attendance…it seems inevitable that the church in the United States will quickly resemble the church in Europe: a collection of empty buildings. If you’re leading a congregation in one way or another, I wouldn’t blame you for having feelings of hopelessness as you try what you can in the face of all of these challenges.

But if you’re leading a church, or just someone who loves and believes in the potential of Christ’s body in the world, I think the above quote is more than just wishful thinking. I think it’s prophetic. Here’s why…

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